(By Gary Patterson)
If you put a bunch of crabs in a bucket you'll witness an interesting phenomenon. When one attempts to climb out of the bucket, the other crabs pull him back down.
Do you have any crabby people in your family, at work, at school, even at church? People who are selfish and insensitive, and by their words and actions, are constantly pulling you down into discouragement and despair?
How are we to respond to people who are selfish and insensitive?
The Bible offers profound wisdom on navigating relationships, including when dealing with selfishness within families. It emphasizes patience, forgiveness, and leading by example rather than judgment. Here are some passages that might resonate:
Ephesians 4:2:
"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." This reminds us to approach family members with compassion and understanding. Even though certain family members, don't exhibit this behavior, doesn't mean that we are to do so as well.
Colossians 3:13:
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Forgiveness can be key in maintaining harmony, even when selfishness arises. Forgiveness is not an easy thing to show. But if God (through Jesus Christ) can forgive us, we should be able to do the same.
Philippians 2:3-4:
"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." By demonstrating selflessness, you might inspire positive change in others. It is possible, that demonstrating selfless behavior, can motivate others to do the same.
Proverbs 15:1:
"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." This teaches the importance of responding with kindness, even when faced with frustrating behavior. There are many times, we have felt like retaliating with severe hurtful words, in response to the selfishness being thrown our way.
At the heart of these teachings is the message that love and humility are transformative forces. While it's challenging to deal with selfishness, the Bible encourages us to act with grace and perseverance.
No matter how lonesome we may feel, because of the selfish behavior of those around us. Always remember that with the Lord Jesus Christ, we are never alone. He is always there to help treat the wounds of the selfish affiction of others.
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